A Mother’s Story: “I Have My Son Back”

 

Joyce is the mother of three children, including Jae, a graduate of the Narconon program. Like many parents, Joyce watched addiction slowly take her son away from the person she had always known him to be. Today, she shares what that experience was like, the changes she witnessed during his time at Narconon, and what it means to have her son back.

What was the hardest part of watching your son struggle with addiction?

The hardest part was watching him suffer and become someone other than himself. I knew Jae as this funny, loving, kind person. Addiction brought a darkness into his life, and we both suffered because of it.

There were a lot of arguments and misunderstandings. I never wanted him to feel like I was hurting him, I was trying to help him. I just wanted to support him and be there for him, but it was difficult watching him go through so much pain.

How did his addiction change your relationship with him?

There was a lot of misery for both of us. For me, it was heartbreaking to see how unhappy he was and to feel like there was nothing I could do to help. Our relationship wasn't good during that time because addiction had created so much hurt and distance between us.

What changes did you notice while he was at Narconon?

The changes were amazing. He became more present and engaged. He was smiling again. I could see that desire to be happy and to make his life better.

How did the staff at Narconon help Jae?

The staff were wonderful. One of the first things that gave me hope was hearing Travis, the Executive Director, say, “We want to get your son in. We're going to help him.” He did everything he could to make that happen. As I got to know the rest of the staff, everyone was kind and supportive, and that meant a lot to me.

What does it feel like to have your son back?

It's monumental. Sometimes I just watch him and think, “He’s back.” That's my Jae. That's the person I've always known. Seeing him healthy, happy, and being himself again is something I can't even fully put into words. I'm just so happy for him.

What would you say to another parent whose child is struggling with addiction?

Parents, get them in here. The Narconon program is a wonderfully put together program, and they take good care of your kids. When your child completes the program, you'll be amazed at the difference.

Joyce W., Mother of Narconon Graduate